THURSDAY, SEPTEMBER 26, 2019
“Therefore each of you must put off falsehood and speak truthfully to his neighbor, for we are all members of one body. ‘In your anger do not sin’: Do not let the sun go down while you are still angry, and do not give the devil a foothold....
“Do not let any unwholesome talk come out of your mouths, but only what is helpful for building others up according to their needs, that it may benefit those who listen. And do not grieve the Holy Spirit of God, with whom you were sealed for the day of redemption.... Be kind and compassionate to one another, forgiving each other just as in Christ God forgave you.” (Ephesians 4:25-27,29,30,32)
These practical words of wisdom from Paul provide excellent guidance for conducting our relationships with others. They also explain the close interconnectedness of our human relationships and our relationship with God. Taking a godly approach to human relationships both brings life to other and deepens our fellowship with God our Father.
How could we summarize Paul’s teaching? In short, we may maximize our relationships by honoring God and others, an attitude that come into short supply. Honor requires intentional effort: thoughtfulness, discretion, and consideration. But the benefits far outweigh the costs. Honor results in joy and blessing for bother the recipient and the giver.
We cultivate an attitude of honor through the humble recognition that we are part of one Body and wish to bless the whole. As C. S. Lewis explains, humility doesn’t mean thinking less of ourselves, but rather thinking of ourselves less. Humility gives birth to others-mindedness and a true compassion.
Keeping short accounts—forgiving others quickly and showing grace in the little things—supports unity. Anger and unforgiveness soon lead to bitterness and hardness of spirit, killing the prospect of intimacy or compassion. As Paul points out, God’s tremendous grace makes our small acts of forgiveness not only possible but a true reflection of what we have received.
Whom do you know that gives life to others? How could you imitate them more today?
For me, I have been richly blessed with many life-giving people, starting with my parents. God has also placed great mentors in my life, who have challenged me and helped me to understand the value of humility and integrity. The Grace Church family and my colleagues at work also share life and are in pursuit of purposeful outcomes. Thank You, Father!
Lord God, thank You for reconciling us to Yourself through the shed blood of Your Son. Help us to love and honor You and others in our day-to-day living. Give us wisdom as we choose our words and attitudes towards others. Bring humility into our lives so that we may bless and give life. In Jesus’s mighty Name, amen.
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