Ezekiel 39:1-40:27
James 2:18-3:18
Psalm 118:1-18
Proverbs 28:2
"People can tame all kinds of animals, birds, reptiles, and fish, but no one can tame the tongue. It is restless and evil, full of deadly poison. Sometimes it praises our Lord and Father, and sometimes it curses those who have been made in the image of God. And so blessing and cursing come pouring out of the same mouth. Surely, my brothers and sisters, this is not right! Does a spring of water bubble out with both fresh water and bitter water? Does a fig tree produce olives, or a grapevine produce figs? No, and you can't draw fresh water from a salty spring."
James 3:7-12
Have you ever squeezed too much toothpaste out of the tube? Once toothpaste is out, it can't be put back. It's the same with what we say. Once words leave your mouth, you can't take them back.
Words are powerful. That's clear from today's reading. It's very important to be aware of what we are saying. James 3 describes how the tongue is a small part of the body that can bring great evil. Like a spark setting a forest on fire, or a rudder steering a huge ship, the tongue can have a great effect, and unfortunately it is often used for evil.
We are all aware of the saying "sticks and stones may break my bones but words will never hurt me." Too bad this is a lie. Personally, I find words can be more painful than physical wounds (I'm sure many of you would agree with me). Memories of physical pain will fade, but hurtful words can wound someone for many years. I would almost rather be slapped across the face, than be hurt by someone's words.
Slander, gossip, hurtful talk, quarreling, lying. These are all things that poison our hearts and lead us to ruin. Remember, be slow to speak. Think about what you say before you say it. Ask yourself, "Is this what God would want me to say?" Wisdom also means knowing when to be silent. Sometimes the best thing to say is nothing at all.
Proverbs 21:23 "He who guards his mouth and his tongue keeps himself from calamity."
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