April 13: Of Lori, Felicity, Achan and Our Children

Joshua 7:16-9:2

Luke 16:1-18

Psalm 82:1-8

Proverbs 13:2-3

One of the many controversies capturing the US public's attention involves a couple of actresses (and around 40 other parents) who paid bribes to get their children into good colleges.  Their actions meant students who might otherwise have been accepted were turned away.  The actress parents were found out and charged, one has pled guilty, and they are both likely to go to jail.  They tried to shield their children from the consequences of their actions, unsuccessfully.  Their children's admissions are being investigated, at least two have ceased to attend school, and one daughter who had built a strong social media following lost two major sponsors.  All this, because they wanted good things for their children, but obtained them the wrong way. 

I was reminded of this when I read today's OT reading.  Yesterday we read how Achan had disobeyed God by taking a robe and treasure during the plunder of Jericho.  And subsequently we saw Israel defeated by Ai.  Because of Achan's actions, thirty six Israelites died, likely leaving widows and fatherless children.  And because of his choices, not only did he pay a price, his sons and daughters did as well - they were stoned to death right after the father was.   All this because the Achan wanted good things - likely for his children as well - but chose to disobey God to obtain them.  

A harsh lesson, but an important one.  As parents, we want only good things for our children.  But the choices we make will carry consequences for them, however much we may try to shield them.  How then to ensure the choices we make are good?  By first - and, when conflict arises, only - choosing God, however attractive or well meaning the alternative might seem.  The NT reading makes it clear that there is no middle ground - "no one can serve two masters".  Either we choose God, or we do not.  And when we do not - again, however well intentioned our choices might be - there will be consequences.  Painful ones, even.

Father, it is when I believe there is a good result that will justify disobedience that I am most vulnerable to committing sin.  Not just for my sake, but for my children's as well - when tempted to listen to rationalization in my head, speak to my heart - shout, if You must - to remind me that however delicious the fruit looks, it is sin to take a bite.  Then give me the strength to back off.