Blessings,
Randi
The story of Tamar…
As we read in 2 Samuel 13:9, Tamar, David's daughter and, a princess is raped by her step brother Amnon. How does the world around her deal with that? Tamar is advised not to make the rape public, to keep silent. She is left to live with her big secret, and she became a desolate woman. This incident became a life sentence for her. Absalom, her brother, doesn't express any feelings, doesn't seem like he has a lot to say, but, in silence, builds hate in his heart and eventually kills his brother. David is angry but does absolutely nothing about the situation. He fails as a father. I am sure Tamar felt unimportant, guilty, and dead. This was such an unfair situation for this young girl.
David doesn't take any action but hopes like many of us that through some magic means things will just work themselves out. I heard someone say that, when we fail to take action in matters that are important to God, we eventually stop hearing the voice of God. Inaction has a high price.
The world failed Tamar but Jesus came to all the Tamars in history, men and women, to give them life, rich, abundant life, and to give them hope (John 10:10). No matter the past, we don't have to become depressed or crushed by grief. The world might have turned us into a Tamar, but Jesus made us the sons and daughters of the Absolute King (John 1:12-13); we have a royal heritage. David failed Tamar, but our Father will never fail us: "He will never leave you nor forsake you."(Deuteronomy 31:6). He loves us with an unfailing love, an everlasting love. He knows exactly what kind of love we need, he knows how to heal us and restore each one of us, no matter how unique our case is.
I wish I could go back in history and tell Tamar that there is hope, that her life doesn't need to be over and that I understand. I cannot do that, but how many Tamars are around me today?…
In Christ,
Anca
2 Samuel 11
I have had sad conversations at times in the ministry. One of the most heartbreaking is the one concerning adultery. When one partner finds that the other has been unfaithful to their wedding vows, it devastates them.
As I talk with the offending party I usually hear sentences like, "I didn't think it would ever happen to me," "I didn't think I would get caught," and "it started so innocently." Regardless of the excuse, the consequences of adultery are deadly.
One spring night it did start innocently with David. He was now approaching 50 and he would not be going to the front lines with the boys. So why not go out for a nice evening stroll? But there was a view he shouldn't have looked at. And an invitation he wasn't supposed to give. And the boundaries set by God were conveniently forgotten.
Marriage is God's invention; it has his fingerprints all over its design. God clearly stated right from the start that it is a lifelong commitment between two people of the opposite sex.
While we can choose our sin, we can't choose our consequences. Some of the consequences of David's disobedience included an unwanted pregnancy, the death of an innocent man and a baby, the loss of respect from his children, and future political upheaval and violence – all the days of his life.
The world we live in today does not believe in sexual boundaries. The rule of thumb is to do whatever comes naturally to you. This is what I love to call, "Jerry Springer Theology." This way of thinking and living is both dangerous and deadly. As much as people think they are free, real freedom comes from living inside the boundaries God has given us. That is where the greatest marital joy possible is found.
So do we have anything to say to people who get caught in the web of sin? 1000 years after this event, a woman who was caught in the very act of adultery would be brought to Jesus. Jesus spoke two life-changing truths to her. First, he said he didn't condemn her. He would take her condemnation to the cross and pay the penalty she deserved. Second, he said to leave her life of sin. If anyone is brave enough to own their sin, God is powerful enough to forgive it. God is also so gracious that if a couple wants to restore their broken marriage, he will give them the resources and the strength to accomplish it. It will not be an easy path to travel down, but it is the right one. I pray that if you are in a disconnected marriage today, you will allow Jesus to bring restoration and renewal to it.
THURSDAY, MAY 18, 2017
"I am the good shepherd; I know my sheep and my sheep know me—just as the Father knows me and I know the Father—and I lay down my life for the sheep. I have other sheep that are not of this sheep pen. I must bring them also. They too will listen to my voice, and there shall be one flock and one shepherd. The reason my Father loves me is that I lay down my life—only to take it up again. No one takes it from me, but I lay it down of my own accord. I have authority to lay it down and authority to take it up again. This command I received from my Father." (John 10:14–18)
In this passage, we see the close connection between Jesus's identity and His mission. Throughout the Gospel of John, Jesus offers seven key "I am" statements: "the bread of life"; "the light of the world"; "the gate"; "the good shepherd"; "the resurrection and the life" "the way, the truth, and the life"; and "the true vine." In addition, in John 8:58, He declares His pre-existence of Abraham: "Before Abraham was, I am!" These powerful images highlight both Jesus's mission and identity and point to the fullness of His deity, echoing God's address to Moses as "I am who I am."
Each of Jesus's "I am" statements tie to His relationship with His followers. Several refer to our coming to know Him initially, while others speak about the perseverance of those who have trusted in Him. Throughout these statements, we recognize that we experience the fullness of our personhood and joy in Christ: "that your joy may be complete." (John 15:11)
In light of our knowledge of the Great "I am," how shall we respond? How may we properly understand our identity and mission? As Pastor Scott has shared from The Red Sea Rules, God has placed us where we are "(1) by God's appointment (2) in His keeping (3) under His training (4) for His time." God's sovereignty extends to every aspect of our lives and in the sometimes chaotic circumstances in which we find ourselves. In this picture of sovereignty, God superintends that we may experience His love and presence, even in the midst of struggles and woe.
Ultimately, the Bible testifies that our identity and mission both arise from our Creator. Fashioned into His image, we are blessedly His. We may be secure in His love and kindness for us. Called as His own, we may now find our fulfillment in loving, knowing, honoring, and serving Him. Praise be to God that, through the atoning sacrifice of His Son, we may become partakers in this mission.
Do you feel confident in your identity and mission today? If not, how could you receive encouragement from Jesus's example here or Paul's (Philippians 1:21; Philippians 3:1–14)?
Lord God, thank You for giving us the opportunity to know You and to serve You. Thank You for making us in Your image and calling us Your own. Give us wisdom so that we may follow You wholeheartedly and bring You glory. In Jesus's Name, amen.
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John 10
At a Bible study I once asked people to write down one question they would like to ask God. Here is one response: "While I myself want to admit you're the only true God, I still don't want make my friends upset by saying this. Why can't we just let everyone choose what they want to believe?"
As Christ followers we are being sent this message daily. "Can't you tone it down a bit; you are upsetting the social order by your radical claims of the exclusivity of Jesus."
In John 10 we observe that this radical talk of exclusivity created a riot 2000 years ago. The context of this conversation is the celebration of Hanukkah. In the Temple area, a space large enough to hold 100,000 worshipers, Jesus addresses the most important issue in all of history. "How long will you keep us in suspense? If you are the Christ, tell us plainly." There it is. This issue divides and upsets the social order both then and now. And what is Jesus' response? "I and the Father are one." Can there be any misunderstanding of what Jesus meant? This is the clearest statement of Jesus' divinity he ever made. There can be no mistake about what he meant. The Jews understood exactly what he meant because they picked up stones to kill him for the crime of blasphemy. This claim is unmistakable; it is undeniable; it is as clear as the nose in front of your face.
In a post-modern world we are told that no one has the right to claim to be God. Yet the radical Jesus of the Bible does just that. "I and the Father are one" was a claim made by Jesus. It was never made by Buddha, Mohammed, Confucius or any other religious leader. This claim is nothing less than a scandal. These words rattle the cages of every post modern person. People squirm when they hear this exclusivity.
We ought to squirm because either Jesus was right or he was wrong. Those are the only choices.
I believe when Jesus was telling us of his "oneness" he was not uttering these words out of arrogance but out of great compassion. I believe that given the undeniable miracles, the authority of his words, and the sinless life he lived, we would be fools for doubting this claim. And if this claim is true, then Jesus' appearance on this planet and the sacrificial giving of his life for us is the greatest, most significant act ever done in the history of mankind.
Sorry, I can't keep quiet. I need to tell the whole world.
Psalm 108
The story is told of a pastor who was officiating at a funeral. When the service was completed, he was asked to lead the funeral procession as it made its way to the cemetery. So he got into his car and started driving at the head of the long column. This is where the trouble began. Sometime during the journey he turned on his radio and started listening to the news. He soon became lost in his thoughts and forgot where he was going. About that time, he passed a Kmart and thought about something he needed to pick up. So he turned into the parking lot. As he was looking for a parking space, he just happened to glance into the rear-view mirror and saw a string of cars following, all with their lights on.
While we laugh at this story, it is a reminder that it is so easy to lose our way on the road of life. On Sundays we are taking a journey with the Israelites as they make their escape from Egypt. We have discovered that God's purpose in their Red Sea situation was to bring glory to himself. It is when God is glorified that our hearts are most satisfied. The very reason we have been given life today is to praise, worship and glorify our great God.
This was David's heart's desire in Psalm 108. His heart was secure and steadfast, even though he was in a very difficult battle. It was his worship of God that brought peace to his heart. David practiced this by singing to the Lord early in the morning. In his singing, he reminded himself of the greatness of God. God has a superabundance of love and he is faithful to us even when we are not faithful to him. David also declared that God's glory needs to be known all over the earth.
So how is your heart today? Is it steadfast? Does it have supreme confidence that God is in control of every detail of your life?
If you have lost your way, it is time to start singing. You might want to do this discretely, but whistling usually doesn't get you fired. Pick your favorite praise song and start singing. When you live "all for the glory of God" you will gain the victory.
John 4
Every day our lives are walking billboards to the world. Every day we are carrying a message to the world. This message is proclaimed by our body language, our words, our attitudes, how we spend our time and resources, how we treat people, and by what makes us smile or cry; on purpose or by accident, for better or for worse, everyone is carrying a message.
The sobering reality is that many times the message we think we are proclaiming is not the actual message people are hearing.
Designer Cliff Dickens has created unique ads for companies. He says that his ads carry their actual message.
Trader Joe: a poor man's Whole Foods. (Kathie and I love shopping there!!)
Starbucks: we serve you decafe if you are rude.
Hallmark: when you care enough to give a card mass-produced by a corporation.
Old Spice: smell like grandpa. (nailed this one)
WebMD: convince yourself you have a terminal illness.
Harley Davidson: here for you during your mid-life crisis.
Victoria Secret: lowering a woman's self-esteem since 1977.
The point is, everyone is carrying a message and it may not be the one you want to project.
In John 4 we have a woman whose message impacted a whole town. Believing the message that Jesus could quench the thirst of her eternal soul, between verses 26 and 27, she became a Christ follower. Her first response was to drop her water jar and go back into town and share the "message" that had changed her. When we make Jesus our Lord, Savior and Thirst Quencher, it changes everything in our lives. It is never business as usual after Jesus comes in.
Since we have such a wonderful message to proclaim, that Jesus is still the thirst quencher, the challenge for us is to make sure that gospel message is being lived out in every aspect of our lives.